Just the same BS as calling the missed wedding from OMIT as ''what really happened'' to Peter and MJ. They lure you in with bait then deliver on what you don't want to read about.
Mayday will always be Spider-Girl. The person affected by Spider-Verse wasn't even the one Tom D worked on, that's established.
Not by Marvel though. The guy who wrote the story flat out said that it was MC2 Spider-Girl because he supposedly loved that character and wanted to use her. I accept the fact that Marvel used and changed the character... Spider-Girl belongs to them and that's their choice.
I haven't read anything post Spider-Verse... but I'm okay with how I last saw her. Not happy, but okay. I hate the name Spider-Woman for May, but maybe she will go back to Spider-Girl once people start treating her like she's way older than she is, or some evil Spider-Woman will re-use an old story line from 616 and May goes back because of that... who knows.